Here’s a hard truth that every parent of an emerging adult needs to hear:

Just because your child is struggling does NOT mean you are failing as a parent.

I talk to parents every day who feel:

• Guilty—wondering if they did something wrong.
• Frustrated—exhausted from arguments and unmet expectati...

If you’re feeling exhausted, frustrated, and completely drained by your emerging adult’s lack of progress, I need to ask you something:

• Are you reminding them daily to apply for jobs?
• Are you paying for their phone, car, or living expenses—without expecting anything in return?
• Are you staying u...

It’s a question I hear often from parents: Why do so many young men struggle to launch into adulthood while their sisters seem to be thriving?

This isn’t just about laziness or lack of motivation—there are real, systemic reasons why this is happening. Let’s break it down.

1. Women Are Outpacing Me...

If you’ve spent any time on social media, you may have heard of Mel Robbins’ “Let Them” Theory. It’s the idea that we need to let people live their lives without controlling or micromanaging their choices.

But what if I told you that the Let Them theory is a game changer when it comes to parenting ...

As a parent of an emerging adult, you’ve probably faced this situation before:

You need to have a tough conversation—maybe about getting a job, taking responsibility for their student loans, or contributing financially at home. But when you try to bring it up, you get:

🚩 “I’ll handle it, Mom. I go...

I don’t know who needs to hear this today, but parenting changes dramatically after high school. Whatever illusion of control you may have had while your child was in high school—guiding them toward college, making sure assignments were turned in, managing curfews—is gone. Once they graduate, your r...