A question I often hear during consultation calls is, "How do I know if I’m helping my emerging adult or enabling them?" It’s a tough one because the line between helping and enabling can be blurry. But my response is usually the same: Are you parenting from your gut, or are you...

Having difficult conversations with your emerging adult—whether it’s about a life decision or a significant challenge—can feel tense for both of you. But staying calm is key to making sure the discussion is productive and supportive. Whether you're the parent or the emerging...

It’s tough to watch our emerging adults struggle, especially when they turn to alcohol or drugs as a way to manage their mental health. But are you, as a parent, unknowingly allowing this behavior? Maybe you’re not stepping in because you don’t know how, or perhaps you’re...

As parents of emerging adults, we often think we're listening, but are we really? There's a huge difference between hearing the words they’re saying and actually listening to what they mean. Listening builds trust, fosters deeper relationships, and helps our kids feel understood, especially...

We define “emerging adulthood” as the stage post high school through independent (both physically and financially) adulthood. During this time in their lives, peer influence plays a crucial role in shaping the values, decisions, and behaviors of your son or daughter. Understanding how...

Learning to be an independent adult is one of the hardest and most significant transitions in life. As parents, our job evolves from providing direct care to offering guidance and support as they take on new responsibilities and challenges. This transition is not just about financial...